What Does My Dream Woman Look Like?
" What does my dream woman look like?“
“Hi, we're running a survey for the website www.traumfrau-gesucht.info on the topic ‘What does my dream woman look like?’ So what does yours look like?”
“Long, blonde hair! Athletic type, but she's welcome to wear a skirt now and then.”
“Sensual eyes! And a mouth that invites you to kiss it!”
“Red hair, I'm totally into that!”
“ What does my dream woman look like? Goth, of course! Black hair, black clothes, kohl eyeliner, dark eyeshadow!”
“Like her, of course!” he says, pointing at his girlfriend next to him. – “The only right answer, or else no sex for four weeks!” she replies, laughing.
Tastes differ, as our little survey from April 2016 shows.
Inner values
The question “ What does my dream woman look like?” isn't just about looks. At the latest when you find yourself wondering yet again how that guy landed that cutie or that woman landed that pretty boy, you start to suspect it. The eye does take part in the meal, but looks can't be the only deciding criterion.
According to studies, other things matter. Humor, for example. People like to laugh – and they want to be made to laugh. Anyone who can make others laugh racks up plenty of dream-partner points. Then comes ease in dealing with each other. Nobody likes bringing up a great idea or a necessity and hearing nothing but “can't” and “don't want to.” And constantly having to explain everything because the other person doesn't get what was said right away makes a relationship sluggish. How nice, by contrast, when the other person understands everything and goes along with a lot of things on their own. Other important inner values are the ability to handle conflict, reliability, being grounded in life, and a good dose of self-confidence. And being on the same wavelength, in other words thinking alike and knowing what the other person is thinking.
“ What does my dream woman look like?”
Inner values come first. If the looks are right too, then we're already very close to the dream woman.Compensating for your own shortcomings An interesting and well-known phenomenon is compensating for your own shortcomings. What you don't like about yourself, the other person must not have. If you've always struggled with wearing glasses, people who don't need glasses score extra points with you. Crooked nose, beautiful nose. Big insecurity around larger groups, confident presence in front of groups. “ What does my dream woman look like?” – when it comes to shortcomings, not like me.
What does my dream woman look like? – Conclusion Humor, ease, reliability, self-confidence. Being on the same wavelength. Few of the shortcomings you have yourself. And then the looks come into play. “ What does my dream woman look like?” – like this!