Approaching attractive women with success Not everyone is a born charmer. You don't have to be. To get to know an attractive and interesting woman, it is enough to stay open, be true to yourself and be confident. Here are more tips on how best to approach an attractive woman so you can reap the rewards.

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Approaching Attractive Women Made Easy!

Before you walk up to a person, whether man or woman, you should make first contact. Glances are especially important here. In any case, it is important not to confuse looking with staring.

A glance says a hundred words

Always give a woman friendly, unobtrusive glances. Not glances that say "I want you, and I want you now," but glances that say you are romantic, sweet and elegant. As silly as it sounds, it works. Women want to be looked at and treated with respect. You should also never overdo it with pickup lines. Here is why...

Approaching Attractive Women - Getting Shot Down Instead of Landing a Date? Here's What Not to Do

Approaching attractive women is, in most cases, easier than you might think. But the modern man ruins everything himself by using lines that are neither appropriate nor something a woman actually wants to hear. Men very often try to sound cool with especially clever lines. Most of the time, it ends up having exactly the opposite effect. To a woman's ear, the lines usually sound condescending, demeaning and overly forced.

Here is how to do it right

Anyone who wants to approach attractive women and really succeed doesn't have to be the most creative, coolest, strongest or smartest of all. Walk up to a woman naturally and without inhibition, ask her if she would like to have a drink with you, and give compliments she doesn't hear every day, about her hair, her style or how elegant she looks to you. The tone should not come across as a pickup attempt, but friendly, relaxed and nice. Smile a lot, don't only talk about yourself, but ask questions about the other person's daily life. Ask where she works, whether she enjoys it, whether she has hobbies, likes animals or enjoys being out in nature. Avoid questions and stories about former partners. Tell the truth about yourself and by all means avoid bragging. Women get a false impression that way, and it will stick and surely never be undone.

Love is love

When a spark flies, you will notice it, just like the woman standing in front of you. If you notice that the conversation isn't really getting anywhere or you sense pure disinterest from the other side, you are better off dropping it. You can't force something to work, and you should remember that before approaching a woman. If she has no interest, you can feel it and should be able to accept it. In the end, you will have more time to approach other attractive women.